Will I get there?

.The hurricane is blowing with 10 fold violence,The rain beats on the skin with no respite,The scent of a storm is riding on the chill wind,There are lighting flashes and thunder rolling’s,Tears are beating the ground with so much force,The ground is becoming a mini-river,The body is shivering and it’s in spasm,And the only question…

The life of a fresh graduate. Life after school.

I completed my university studies in November 2020 and was set to graduate in April this year but unfortunately my name never made it to the graduation list. I have no other title that suits me for the time being other than a fresh graduate even though I do not qualify for it, since I…

My journey with a narcissist.

It was on a Sunday morning and I was heading to church so that i could begin my year on a high note and have a strong foundation for the other 11 months that would follow. As I was heading to church my heart was filled with joy and I took it as a sign…

I know of a girl.

She is truthful when lying is the common speech of men, She is honest when honesty has become a lost virtue, She is a keeper of promises when the keeping of a promise is expected from no one, She gives her great mind to great thoughts and great purposes when other great minds waste themselves…

A letter to the one I thought was the ONE.

Dear Titus, I must say I endured a heavy robust of discussions before I found courage to pick up my pen and write to you even though I am unsure whether you will recall me but I know you do. We last interacted in August of 2019 while I was doing my internship and since…

The influence that fathers have on their daughters relationships.

The relationship between daughters and fathers has been highlighted to be of great influence in the way girls relate with men. They say a father is the daughter’s first influential love and she gets her first impression of herself from him, which determines whether she feels valued or rejected by the opposite sex in life….

It has nothing to do with me.

I have always been told that the way you carry yourself determines how a man will view you and as a woman you get to know what their impression about you is and so it’s important to put yourself out there in a respectable manner. But, What if you do that but still attract men…

Don’t play wife until you are.

What happened to this: meet a man, get to know him (date), let him propose, then marriage, enjoy it and down the line have some kids. Nowadays this concept has become foreign to many women for they are opting to start at the corner of the road with the aim of getting to the predestined…

There should be no shame in a woman seeking a wealthy man.

*Boy meets girl*Boy and girl assess one another’s mate value from perspectives based upon their different reproductive agendas/capacities        • He looks for signs of youth, fertility, health, absence of previous sexual experience and likelihood of future sexual fidelity. In other words his assessment is skewed toward finding a fertile, healthy young mate with many childbearing…