I know of a girl.

She is truthful when lying is the common speech of men, She is honest when honesty has become a lost virtue, She is a keeper of promises when the keeping of a promise is expected from no one, She gives her great mind to great thoughts and great purposes when other great minds waste themselves…

A letter to the one I thought was the ONE.

Dear Titus, I must say I endured a heavy robust of discussions before I found courage to pick up my pen and write to you even though I am unsure whether you will recall me but I know you do. We last interacted in August of 2019 while I was doing my internship and since…

The influence that fathers have on their daughters relationships.

The relationship between daughters and fathers has been highlighted to be of great influence in the way girls relate with men. They say a father is the daughter’s first influential love and she gets her first impression of herself from him, which determines whether she feels valued or rejected by the opposite sex in life….

It has nothing to do with me.

I have always been told that the way you carry yourself determines how a man will view you and as a woman you get to know what their impression about you is and so it’s important to put yourself out there in a respectable manner. But, What if you do that but still attract men…

Don’t play wife until you are.

What happened to this: meet a man, get to know him (date), let him propose, then marriage, enjoy it and down the line have some kids. Nowadays this concept has become foreign to many women for they are opting to start at the corner of the road with the aim of getting to the predestined…

There should be no shame in a woman seeking a wealthy man.

*Boy meets girl*Boy and girl assess one another’s mate value from perspectives based upon their different reproductive agendas/capacities        • He looks for signs of youth, fertility, health, absence of previous sexual experience and likelihood of future sexual fidelity. In other words his assessment is skewed toward finding a fertile, healthy young mate with many childbearing…

Why do women stay even after being cheated on?

There isn’t a week that goes by without coming across cheating scandals in all the social media platforms and it has already been normalized to a point it no longer gets us by surprise or even leave our mouths hanging in the air. We are in the period where “mtaachana tu” (you’ll eventually part ways)…

Body Modification

While body modification was frowned at and done in private, it is now desirable and flaunted publicly. Recently I have been following the DR.90210 series religiously in awe, seeing how the doctors are able to transform the physique and alter it towards the liking of the client within hours. Who would have thought that that…

Dear Parent,

Dear Parent, For the past one month my fears and worries have long held me at bay to a point of my body is being denied its purpose because of the fear of failing you yet you’ve done so much for me. It’s only because of you I exist in this phase of the earth,Because…

Reasons as to why I’m no longer into dating.

Yester night I was having a conversation with my close friend on how the dating scene no longer fascinates me and slowly by slowly I have been losing its luster and instead finding joy in embracing singlehood. I have dated some guys but I’ve never had a relationship with either but I don’t have regrets…